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Showing posts with label Mother's Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mother's Day. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Mommy Whispers by Jenny Lee Sulpizio {Book Review}

Any mother with a daughter will be able to relate to this book, and any daughter once she's older will realize the feelings her mother went through while raising her.
Mommy Whispers is a keepsake children's book that depicts the special relationship between a mother and her daughter through each stage of their lives and ultimately, the power of prayer and faith in God through it all.
I enjoyed reading this book to my oldest daughter (almost 6 years old), but did feel it's more geared toward an older age range.  She sat through it and listened, but isn't of course going to understand all the meaning behind the words just yet.  And ultimately it's not a book I'd read as a bedtime story each night, but rather occasionally throughout the years, and then when my daughter has a big milestone (ie. heading to college, getting married, or having her first baby) is when I'd pass the book along to her.  Perhaps with a personalized message written inside the cover of the book.
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The message behind the book is beautiful, and the repeated words "You are God's gift to me, forever you will be" are uplifting and special.  It would be a book your daughter would always cherish, and if and when she has a daughter of her own, she could pass it along when her own daughter reaches a significant milestone.  You can easily see how this would become a book passed on to each new generation of daughters.  And if you include your own special note inside, a young girl could be reading her own moms message along with her grandma's message to her mom, and on and on... multiple generations of special messages between mothers and daughters.
Mommy Whispers by Jenny Lee Sulpizio and Illustrated by Peg Lozier, can be purchased online in both paperback form and ebook at Amazon and Barnes and Noble.

Jenny Lee Sulpizio M.S., is a wife, business owner, and mother of three residing in Idaho.  Mommy Whispers is her first publication.  You can learn more about Jenny by visiting her website and following her blog at www.jennysulpizio.com.

You can also connect with her on Facebook and Twitter and learn about her upcoming book projects, including 'There's just Something about a Boy':




Disclosure:  Thank you to author Jenny Lee Sulpizio for providing me with a copy of her book to review.  All thoughts and opinions are 100% my own and yours may differ.

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Joy and Sadness, Celebration and Grief

Can these words actually go together?  When it comes to feelings about Mother's Day, for me, yes they do.  I've never really written about this in any extent, whether on my blog or elsewhere so it may be all over the place, but I wanted to touch on it today for anyone else who may be feeling the same thing.

Mother's Day is today- Sunday, May 8th.  It's a day for celebrating your mom and to be celebrated if you're a mom yourself.  Yet if your mom is no longer with you in this world, it's only half the celebration it should be.
My Mom, Sally 11.8.53- 3.18.95
My mom passed away when I was 16 years old- in a car accident... she died on impact.  She left behind a husband and nine children.  It was a rough time for me- at 16 you're still trying to figure yourself out, struggling with peer pressure and social cliques in school, the stress of grades and sports.  You're not a child anymore but far from an adult, even though technically it's only two years away.

Losing a parent, while tough at any age, just wasn't fair to have one taken from me while I was still a teenager.  She never got to see me graduate high school, get married, enlist in the military, have my 1st baby, buy our 1st house.  She wasn't there through my failures either, to give advice, or help me back up after I fell.  My girls will never know their Grandmother- a woman who would've loved them beyond measure.

I miss my Mom... more than these words can truly convey.  And while I enjoy the Mother's Day I celebrate with my own daughters, and am thankful the girls now have someone special in their lives to take the role of Grandma, it's still hard when you don't have that one person in your life who you think will always be there for you.  The person who helped create you and brought you into the world... the first person on Earth to love you, and love you unconditionally!

I read a post the other day, and then watched a video related to that post, that really made an impact on me and tied together several different aspects of my life.  It was a post on May is Melanoma Awareness Month, about losing a loved one, and the video was titled 'Dear 16 year old Me'- offering advice to yourself as a teen.
Of course, the part about losing a loved one pertains to me, and my 16 year old self, well I'll get to that in a minute.  But also the Melanoma Awareness- I've had a few weird things going on with my health lately that have made me suspicious and concerned.  I already have a doctor appointment scheduled and will be going in a couple weeks (hopefully to find out it's nothing), but to read the story and watch the video made me realize how important it was.  That you are the best person to know what's going on with your body... pay attention to it... and don't put off seeing a doctor if need be!

So back to that piece of advice,  if I could tell my 16 year old self one thing (before that fateful day of losing my mother), it would be to always tell your mom (and dad) you love them and give them a hug each and every time one of you goes out the door (even if you're having a typical teenage mood swing) ... because you aren't guaranteed tomorrow, and you never know if you'll see them again.

It sounds so simple and at certain times we all vow to do it.  We read someone else's story of loss and we say  "I will always do this", but after a short period of time has gone by... we don't.  We forget how important it really is and we take one another for granted.  We think "I'll see so and so tomorrow, I'll tell them the next time I see them." or "I don't need to say it out loud, they already know how I feel."  It's always when it's too late that we realize how truly important it was.

But alas, you can't change history.  I can't travel back in time and even if I could, would I really listen to myself?  I was a typical stubborn 16 year old and didn't like anyone telling me what to do.  It would be great if we were all perfect and could always remember to do the right thing, but we're human and we will always mess up.  No matter how hard we try or no matter how many people tell us, we'll make mistakes.  There are life lessons we all must learn...

I hope this wasn't too scatterbrained, and I hope if your Mother is still with you that you show her how much you care about and love her this Mother's Day... if you're like me- I hope you have memories to cherish.  And if you're a Mother yourself- enjoy your children no matter which stage of life they're in.
I love you Mom!